Irvin D. Yalom is an American existential psychiatrist who is emeritus professor of psychiatry at Stanford University, as well as an author of both fiction and nonfiction.

Dr. Yalom turned 94 recently, and is no longer seeing patients for consultation. Please contact his son, psychotherapist Benjamin Yalom, with inquiries.

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Hour of the Heart

Irvin D. Yalom and Benjamin Yalom

Facing memory loss as he approached 90, Irvin Yalom was forced to vastly reconsider his sessions with patients. Rather than throw in the towel, he revolutionized his prac­tice, focusing on what might be achieved in a one-hour, one-time-only meeting between patient and practitioner.

In Hour of the Heart, Yalom recounts some of these intense, life-changing consultations, as well as changes to his memory and sense of self. These stories show how a therapist’s willingness to be open helps patients let down their own guards, leading to deeper and more immediate connection.

Life is precious and our time together short. Written in collaboration with his son, Hour of the Heart shows us how to relate better in the moment, with more honesty and vulnerability.

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The 10 Best Irvin D. Yalom Books

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1When Nietzsche Wept — book coverBest Overall

When Nietzsche Wept

9.6 / 10
3Love's Executioner — book coverClassic Case Stories

Love's Executioner

9.5 / 10
#1 When Nietzsche Wept — book cover
Best Overall

When Nietzsche Wept

Novel · 1992 · Best for: Readers new to Yalom

The international bestseller that imagines Friedrich Nietzsche in "talking cure" sessions with Josef Breuer — the perfect first Yalom book and winner of the Commonwealth Club Gold Medal for Best Fiction.

FictionExistentialBestseller

9.6/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#2 The Theory and Practice of Group Psychotherapy — book cover
The Textbook

The Theory and Practice of Group Psychotherapy

Textbook · 1970 / 6th ed. 2020 · Best for: Therapists & students

The definitive text on group psychotherapy for over fifty years — used in training programs worldwide and now in its sixth edition, co-written with Molyn Leszcz.

Group TherapyClinicalTraining

9.7/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#3 Love's Executioner — book cover
Classic Case Stories

Love's Executioner

Case Stories · 1989 · Best for: Curious general readers

Ten absorbing true tales from the therapy room that made psychotherapy writing a literary genre — still the most-recommended introduction to what therapy actually feels like.

Psychotherapy TalesNonfictionClassic

9.5/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#4 Existential Psychotherapy — book cover
The Foundation

Existential Psychotherapy

Textbook · 1980 · Best for: Deep theoretical grounding

Yalom's magnum opus on the four "ultimate concerns" — death, freedom, isolation and meaninglessness — the founding text of American existential psychotherapy.

ExistentialClinicalReference

9.5/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#5 The Gift of Therapy — book cover
Best for New Therapists

The Gift of Therapy

Guide · 2002 · Best for: New & training therapists

Eighty-five bite-size chapters distilling thirty-five years of clinical wisdom — an open letter to a new generation of therapists and their patients.

Practice TipsMentorshipShort Chapters

9.4/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#6 Becoming Myself — book cover
The Memoir

Becoming Myself

Memoir · 2017 · Best for: Fans of the author

Yalom turns his therapeutic gaze on himself — from a Washington, D.C. immigrant childhood to Stanford professorship and worldwide literary fame.

AutobiographyLife & Work

9.2/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#7 Staring at the Sun — book cover
On Death Anxiety

Staring at the Sun

Guide · 2008 · Best for: Confronting mortality

A compassionate guide to overcoming the terror of death — how confronting mortality can wake us up to a richer, more engaged life.

Death AnxietyMeaningSelf-Help

9.1/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#8 Creatures of a Day — book cover
Late Masterwork

Creatures of a Day

Case Stories · 2015 · Best for: Love's Executioner fans

Ten new tales of psychotherapy written in Yalom's ninth decade — patients and therapist alike wrestling with life's brevity and finding meaning in it.

Psychotherapy TalesMortality

9.0/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#9 Lying on the Couch — book cover
Page-Turner

Lying on the Couch

Novel · 1996 · Best for: A gripping therapy novel

A wry, suspenseful novel that pulls back the curtain on the therapist's side of the couch — boundaries, temptation and the messy humanity of healers.

FictionEthicsSatire

9.0/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com
#10 Momma and the Meaning of Life — book cover
Hidden Gem

Momma and the Meaning of Life

Case Stories · 1999 · Best for: Stories of grief & meaning

Six tales — four true, two fiction — probing love, loss and the mother-bond, including the beloved "Seven Advanced Lessons in the Therapy of Grief."

Psychotherapy TalesBlends Fact & Fiction

8.9/10 BUY NOW → Read more at Amazon.com

Compare the Books

Comparison of the 10 best Irvin D. Yalom books
#BookTypeFirst publishedBest forRating
1When Nietzsche Wept coverWhen Nietzsche WeptNovel1992Readers new to Yalom9.6/10BUY
2The Theory and Practice of Group Psychotherapy coverThe Theory and Practice of Group PsychotherapyTextbook1970 / 6th ed. 2020Therapists & students9.7/10BUY
3Love's Executioner coverLove's ExecutionerCase Stories1989Curious general readers9.5/10BUY
4Existential Psychotherapy coverExistential PsychotherapyTextbook1980Deep theoretical grounding9.5/10BUY
5The Gift of Therapy coverThe Gift of TherapyGuide2002New & training therapists9.4/10BUY
6Becoming Myself coverBecoming MyselfMemoir2017Fans of the author9.2/10BUY
7Staring at the Sun coverStaring at the SunGuide2008Confronting mortality9.1/10BUY
8Creatures of a Day coverCreatures of a DayCase Stories2015Love's Executioner fans9.0/10BUY
9Lying on the Couch coverLying on the CouchNovel1996A gripping therapy novel9.0/10BUY
10Momma and the Meaning of Life coverMomma and the Meaning of LifeCase Stories1999Stories of grief & meaning8.9/10BUY
A Matter of Death and Life — book cover

A Matter of Death and Life

Irvin D. Yalom and Marilyn Yalom

A year-long journey by renowned psychiatrist Irvin Yalom, and his wife, esteemed feminist writer Marilyn Yalom, after her terminal diagnosis, as they reflect on how to love and live without regret. With the wisdom of those who have thought deeply, and the familiar warmth of teenage sweethearts who've grown up together, they investigate universal questions of intimacy, love, and grief.

“An unforgettable and achingly beautiful story of enduring love. I will be thinking about this for years to come.”
—Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

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